The saying goes that “Diamonds are a girl’s best friend” and with many women that rings true. There is even a stereotype idea that women judge a man’s worth based upon the size of the diamond when he proposes. Hopefully in this day and age most of us are able to see beyond that, into the value and beauty of less expensive or alternative engagement rings.
Other precious stones
A growing trend is the use of stones other than diamonds for an engagement ring. Not only does this usually cost less, it also reflects the personality of the bride and groom in a much more creative fashion. These rings may not be sold as engagement rings but rather just as regular rings. Or you could have a set made to your specifications.
One nice idea is to combine the bride and groom’s birthstones in a set to symbolize their togetherness. You can also choose a large colored stone and pair it with small diamond chips for a more traditional yet less expensive look.
Cubic zirconia
If the illusion of having a diamond is more important than actually owning one, then consider purchasing a cubic zirconia or other clear stone. These are often shinier and prettier than an actual diamond, for much less. One rule of thumb, though – don’t suggest or flat out lie about the type of stone. Many women have been dismayed to discover that their huge diamond was not what they were told it was, and that is not a good way to start a marriage.
Alternative styles of rings
An engagement ring doesn’t have to have a stone on it at all. Many beautiful rings are made out of gold or other precious metals with an intricate pattern on them. Or you could choose a plain band and have something carved into it – something special to the both of you.
Heirloom ring
Have you asked if you could pass along your grandmother’s or great-grandmother’s ring to your soon-to-be-bride? It is often a free or very inexpensive way of proposing to your beloved and carries much meaning behind it. Most women are overjoyed to wear a ring that means so much to her fiancé’s family. It is certainly a symbol of being brought into the family.
Shop for a bargain
If you insist upon a true diamond but just don’t have the budget for it, you may be able to find a great set at an online discounter, an antique shop, a pawn shop, or even at a jewelry store’s going-out-of-business clearance. Or consider an imperfect diamond or smaller diamond.
Move-up ring
Another alternative that was more common in generations past is to purchase the perfect ring with an imperfect stone and then replace the stone with a larger diamond for an anniversary some years down the road. This is a great option for someone just starting out in a career that promises a good income later on.
No matter what you choose, make it unique and perfect for you and your fiancée. Make sure your fiancée is on board with your choice before you pop the question, though. Perhaps hint around or wander through the jewelry isle of a department store a few weeks beforehand.
If she linger at the diamonds or exclaims about how beautiful the rubies are, then that is a clue to what your choices are. Or simply propose to her without a ring and give her the opportunity to help you shop for the perfect-for-her engagement ring.
Romantic and Creative Dating Ideas that Won’t Break the Bank
You’ve finally met someone that you really want to get to know better. Or, perhaps you’ve been dating for a while but you’re looking for ways to keep your relationship exciting. Coming up with ideas for dates can be a continual challenge. Not to mention that many typical dating ideas like going to movies and spending a night on the town are actually not very romantic and can cost a lot of money. By coming up with some creative frugal dating ideas, you can add more romance to your relationship without hurting your budget.
To get you started, here are some romantic (frugal) and creative dating ideas that won’t break the bank:
1. Cook a low-cost meal together. Going out to dinner together is fun, but noisy restaurants are not always conducive to intimate conversations. They can also get expensive very quickly. Instead, cook a low-cost meal together at one of your homes. Even a simple meal prepared together can be the backdrop for a romantic occasion. Add some candles and soft music, and enjoy the company.
2. Go to art gallery openings. Art galleries are filled with beautiful scenery and lots of topics for interesting discussions. They’re also very beautiful buildings in their own right. Altogether, they are the perfect setting for a frugal romantic date. But instead of paying an entrance fee to the gallery, wait for an art gallery opening. They’ll also usually serve some kind of beverage or appetizer at these events. You may also have a chance to meet some of the artists.
3. Visit free museums. Look for museums in your area that don’t charge admission. You can learn something new together. You can learn about the history of your area together, or explore the history of a nearby location.
4. Take a stroll in the park. Parks are ideal settings for romantic dates, and the admission is free. In the winter, you can hold hands while enjoying the snow and looking for winter animals together. In the summer, enjoy the sunshine and the trees. Many parks have benches or gazebos where you can stop and enjoy the scenery together.
5. Hike with a delicious picnic. If you both enjoy the outdoors, head out for a day of hiking together. Pack a delicious picnic. You may want to include a bottle of wine and some wine glasses to add some extra romance. There are many types of hikes you can go on, from short easy hiking trails, to all-day hikes.
6. Do stargazing/full moon watching. What could be more romantic than enjoying nature’s own light show? Plan an evening under the stars or a full moon. It can get chilly in the evenings, so remember to bring along warm blankets or a jacket so you won’t have to cut your date short. It could also be fun to research some constellations together ahead of time and then look for them in the sky. If it’s a full moon, watch the moon travel across the sky.
7. Dream together. Sometimes the most romantic thing you can do is nothing at all except to dream. Talk about your dreams for the future and what you would like to do some day. This is a great way to get to know each other better. Imagining your “somedays” can be a lot of fun and very romantic.
Dating doesn’t need to cost a lot to be romantic. The above ideas can help you plan some creative and romantic dates, without hurting your budget.
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